So last night we attended a reception dinner on board Pakistan Navy Ship ‘Saif’. It was great fun – although a little nervy at the start.
We arrived up at Muara port with time to spare before the 7pm start – given that we had never been into the docks before to board a ship in Muara! We had to park the car outside the first gate entrance to the docks and then proceed on foot to the ship – a task that would have been avoided had we been privileged enough to have diplomatic plates!
We were not the first guests to board the ship but there were not many when we arrived. The guard at the bottom of the ‘ramp’ (with rifle) saluted us before we walked up to be greeted by the captain, Deputy High Commissioner (that I had met earlier in the week to arrange details of the walkathon) and the commander, Asad Ali (who we later had a lengthy conversation with, more to follow). Two of the sailors then escorted us to rear of the ship (presumably where the helicopter normally sits) where there was a tent covering and the table was set up for a buffet dinner (you can make this area out in the picture shown).
This was the most awkward part of the evening. We first met the High Commissioner and his wife. We chatted more with his wife and she was interested to know we had lived in Murree, where her and her husband were from! It was awkward as diplomat after diplomat arrived on board and were were not always certain of who to chat to and the ettiquette required!
Eventually when there were probably around 150 – 200 on board, the ceremony began as the captain introduced the purpose of the evening. The ship has recently been aquired by the Pakistan Navy having been manufactured in Shanghai, China. The first port of call for the new ship was Muara, Brunei. The ship arrived on Friday morning and departs on Sunday night or Monday morning. The ship will then make it’s way back to Karachi, Pakistan, calling at Thailand, Indonesia and The Maldives along the way. It is due to arrive in Karachi in a months time, on 4 November.
A cake was cut by one of the high up defence personnel from the Brunei Armed Forces and the High Commissioner of Pakistan. Then we all tucked in to the wonderful array of Pakistani food on offer which included; channa curry, chicken korma, biryani, lamb, fried chicken, salad, paratha, raita and various other odds and ends! All very delicious.
As the evening went on we chatted with the sailors who were keen to ask questions about where we were from and why we are in Brunei. They also seemed to appreciate the interest we showed in their ‘mission’ and taking the boat back to Pakistan. Naturally we regularly discussed the fact we had both lived in Pakistan. The crew were also impressed and excited at my ability to talk Urdu (almost a party trick really)!
Commander Asad Ali was one of those who was delighted to talk about out time in Pakistan, esspecially since he had been educated at Lawrence College – a nearby local private school to MCS where we were! We used to play football and basketball against them.
We were very impressed with the friendliness and hospitality shown by the crew and had a most enjoyable evening. Even when the rain started we were kept fairly dry and at the end of the evening a minibus was provided to shuttle us back to the entrance where we had parked earlier that evening.
Today we attended the Walkathon, discussed in my previous blog, run by the Pakistani High Commission to help raise awarness, and funds, for the flood victims in Pakistan. It was nice to see some of the sailors we had met the previous evening and again they were most friendly in coming up and saying ‘hi’ while thanking us for attending the evening before. Of course, we considered the pleasure to be ours as we really had enjoyed the evening after the initial awkwardness of feeling slightly out of place!
Have you ever attended a fancy ‘do’ where you have felt out of place? What about attending a reception on a ship? Do comment and let me know!
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